Chapter 8 of 10
Big feelings & harder seasons
The hard times, held with care.
№ 01
“What are they most afraid of right now?”
№ 02
“What do they do when they need to feel better?”
№ 03
“Tell the story of a time they were really upset, and how you got through it together.”
№ 04
“Tell a story about a moment of disconnection between you — and how you repaired it.”
№ 05
“Tell the story of a day that was just hard — for them, for you, for both of you.”
№ 06
“When have you seen them face something difficult with real courage?”
№ 07
“What's something they've grieved — a loss of any kind — and how did they carry it?”
№ 08 · ages 5-12
“When have you seen them manage a big feeling in a way that moved you?”
№ 09 · ages 5-12
“What has jealousy, exclusion, or social pain looked like for them, and how did you navigate it?”
№ 10
“What big feeling do they seem to struggle most with — and what does that teach you about them?”
№ 11
“What's been the hardest thing to parent them through so far?”
№ 12
“If there's been a season of illness — theirs, or someone close — set it down here, only if you want to.”
№ 13
“If their start was harder than you'd hoped — special care, a long wait, a rocky beginning — tell it when you're ready.”
№ 14
“If you've ever worried about how they were developing, what did that season teach you?”
№ 15
“Has the family been through an upheaval — a move, a separation, a change of shape — and how did they come through it?”
№ 16 · ages 5-12
“What do you want them to know about asking for help?”
№ 17 · ages 5-12
“Take one hard season and tell it whole: how it started, how it felt, and how you came through it together.”